10 Romantic Movies To Watch To Inspire You To Get Back With Your Lover

I woke up one Sunday morning and caught the end of a Meg Ryan Movie called "The Women" on t.v.

I had seen the movie before and I was thinking this would be a great movie to recommend to readers who are in the process of getting their partners back or are experiencing relationship difficulties in general.

Then I thought come to think of it there is another movie I wanted to recommend so I might as well create a Top 10 Highly Recommended Relationship Movies for Repairing Your Relationship and/or Getting Your Lover Back.

So I wrote them down and gave a little background on each and why I chose them - they are in no particular order.

Aside from being just in time for Valentine's Day this list of movies also uses the Law Of Attraction by impressing your Subconscious Mind with the Happily Ever After Endings so that I made sure that with each of these movies you are left with positive feelings as well as encouragement and this in turn will drawn in what it is that creates these positive feelings for
you.

If you are in the process of getting your partner back you will totally understand and get a feeling of what I mean once you watch the movies!

1) The Women:

I recommend this movie because the main character named Mary Haines played by Meg Ryan did exactly what we at our Centre For Life Management and in our  Relationship Programs such as our Counsellor in a Box Home Study Program recommend to people when their partners have left them for the other man or woman especially in regards to focusing on finding themselves and everything else will fall into place.

For our Customers and Readers who have doubts about what we recommend to get their lovers back the magic of watching this movie or a movie in general is that a person actually gets to see the cause and effect of the character or in this case Mary Haine's choice to put herself first.

2) Serious Moonlight:

Okay this movie's plot is really far-fetched and it actually gets a little violent however it is still one of my favorite movies to recommend because the movie does an amazing job explaining what leads up to partners having affairs and the classic mindset and lines that partners who are smitten with the other man or woman use.

Meg Ryan plays a wife named Louise who finds out that her husband Ian ( played by Timothy Hutton) is leaving her for a younger woman.

What is also is inspiring (although keep in mind totally over the top and extreme in her tactics) is Louise's 100% dedication to beleiving in herself and that her and her husband are still ultimate highest and best partners for each other no matter what reasons or explainations her husband tossed at her.

We always recommend detachment and being open to the potential that there maybe someone else who is highest and best for our customers/readers however it is still important to beleive in oneself otherwise people often give in too soon and with regret realize this when it is beyond the chances of reconciliation or something is tossed into the mix that makes it much more difficult to get their partner back.

3) Bridget Jones Diary 2: The Edge Of Reason

As funny as the movie is, it also has a message about the importance of realizing that if you do not acknowledge and resolve your insecurities, trust issues and/ or are not willing to be open to negotiation in areas where there are gaps in compatibility that even when someone unconditionally loves you, you can still potentially destroy your relationship.

Okay plus its really funny.

4) Sex in the City The Movie:

This movie does include some nudity and sex scenes so it is for mature audiences.

In any case this movie is a good example of how people who love each other and are designed to be with one another can run into trouble and potentially lose their relationship due to common relationship issues such as ego, pride, judgment, forgetting and/or not knowing that relationships are a mutual fulfillment of needs, not willing to let go or forgive and lack of communication.

The movie also shows how everyone goes about discovering what is really important in order to have a happy and successful relationship. (There is also one relationship that the theme is about being authentic as well)

5) Mansfield Park

I was delighted to stumble upon this movie one Saturday morning - it was about two thirds of the way through already and

I enjoyed it so much I went and watched it from the beginning when I got a chance.
Somehow I missed reading Jane Austen's book Mansfield Park when I was in school and I am not sure how true it is to the book itself but the movie is a wonderful example of trusting one's feelings and heart and remaining patient and authentic even when the person you know you are designed to be with believes they are meant to be with someone else.

6) The Story of Us:

I just love this movie about a couple, played by Michelle Pfieffer and Bruce Willis who are on the verge of divorce.

This movie really keeps it real on what it is like when a couple is not naturally 100% Compatible and it is a rare treat because it really shows how not only do couples deal with each other but they bring in the influences of their parents into the relationship as well.

This movie also shows the importance of needing to step into the shoes of one's partner to truly understand and empathize with the requirements, needs and wants of their partner.

7) Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon:

This move has a lot of fighting scenes so it is also another movie designed for a mature audience.

Not only does this movie give us a warning that if you are designed to be together don't waste your precious years going by other people's rules but it also has the most beautiful example of having the faith and detachment in knowing that if your partner is Highest and Best you can let them go and they will return.

8) Forces of Nature:

This movie is magical - Ben Affleck plays a man named Ben who is about to get married but is having doubts because his fiance feels so much like home and comfortable that he is concerned that maybe there is suppose to be something more - more spark - more excitement.

He ends up on an unintended adventure where he meets a fun, exciting and expressive woman by played by Sandra Bullock who unintentionally assists him in discovering what a true ultimate highest and best mate is all about - the age old debate of excitement versus love or divinity and how to tell the difference between the two.

9) When Love Is Not Enough: The Lois Wilson Story

I am so happy to have caught this movie on tv - it is a Hallmark Made for Television Movie so I am not sure if you can rent it or not but if you can it is an amazing explanation of what it is like to be the wife of a person with an addiction problem and how at the end of the day - there is nothing that the partner of the addict can do to help the addict until the addict is ready to help themselves.

Lois Wilson is the wife of Bill W. Wilson who created Alcoholics Anonymous after being an alcoholic for many years.

Lois tried everything to try and get him to stop drinking including leaving him and as much as he loved her it wasn't enough to get him to permanently stop drinking until one day he woke up, saw the light and just stopped drinking.

Bill created Alcoholics Anonymous to helps others in similar situations and Lois created Al -non for partners of Alcoholics since these partners have a very unique role to play.

At our Centre we recommend to not get involved with people who have addictions and/or who are toxic or dysfunctional however there are people who seem to be "chosen" or as I call it "in it for life" to stand by their partner through the addiction and their recovery process and one of the important parts to get across is one cannot be in resistance to what they cannot change.

Just as important is the message to not to take it personally when the addict isn't capable of changing for them as well as the importance of having faith and beleiving in their partner to be able to help themselves when they are ready.

10) Mr Wonderful

Mr. Wonderful is about Gus, an electrician played by Matt Dillon and Annabella Sciorra plays his ex-wife Leonora.

Gus needs extra money to start up a business with some friends so he figures if he matches his ex-wife up with a husband he won't have to pay her alimony which will free up money.

Even though Gus is engaged to be married to another woman and Gus and Leonora are complete opposites who seem to not be able to stand each other - you just never know what can happen even when everything seems like it is far gone and done - things are not always what they seem and it is inspiring for those who are logical, black and white thinkers or who see things at face value.

As well - this movie also touches on a term that I heard a Soap Opera character on the Young the Restless named Phyllis say who left her husband of 5 years after she could no longer deny that the ex-wife is her husband's "End Game" or the person who is destined to be with her husband in the end.

The concept of the "End Game" is just something that people can feel - whether they are the 1st Spouse or 2nd - everyone knows in their heart and soul who is really meant to be together and this movie is a great example of this.

Whether you get to see one or all of the movies listed above I assure you that they will be just the inspiration to keep you going and give your a little boost of encouragement as you continue with your journey and the unfoldment process of getting your partner back.